Being disappoint and being betrayed in a relationship is one of the toughest thing to deal with.It is one of the toughest thing the the earth.It’s not easy.But as the saying go “Life will go on…no matter what”.The truth is the pain caused by the disappointment or betrayal will leave a very big wound.But the wound will be healed by time one day.
We should not feel guilty or hate our self because we disappointed with someone.At the end we can’t control anyone action or decision.There is no point in sitting and worrying about what is already been happened.Being disappointed and keeping the grudge will only make our life more miserable and unhappy.
We should learn to be positive when we in disappointment state.Rather than blaming the situation we should learn from it.Everything happened for a reason.It’s just that we have to be in a ‘idle’ & ‘neutral’ state to evaluate the entire situation.The first step in bouncing back from disappointment is by completely forgive the person who hurt or betray you.You should be grateful its happen at this stage rather than later in your life.
Learn to let go.Sometime it’s better to let go rather than being in ‘complicated’ situations.Listen to your inner voice before you make any decision to let go.By learning to let go the person who betray you or the situation which disappoint you,you learn to accept the truth.Accepting the truth and situation is the key to be peace with yourself.
Learn some new things.Learning something new will occupy your time and mind.Learn some fun things that can bring happiness to your life.Learn to be in the moments.You can never change what is already happened.You can never change what is going to happen.But what is in your control is your present moments.Why waste such a precious present moments by being disappoint and blaming situations?
The key for you happiness is YOU.Only you can make yourself happy.Once you start to realise this,you will be more happy with your life.