Monday, July 28, 2008

Your Life Is Your Work of art

While I was reading a book, I came across this wonderful thought by one of my favorite writers, Shakti Gawain which is very inspiring. Such a powerful thoughts. I believe it can bring a lot of positive changes in people life. Here is the passage:

“Your Life is Your Work of Art”

“I like to think myself as an artist, and my life is my greatest work of art. Every moment is a moment of creation, and each moments of creation contain infinite possibilities. I can do things the way I have always done them, or I can look at all the different alternatives, and try something new and different and potentially more rewarding. Every moment presents a new opportunity and a new decision. What a wonderful game we are playing, and what a magnificent art form”

We can apply this concept in every part of our life. Be it business, relationship, career and every single thing. We are the architect of our life. Most of the time we heard people complaining that life is sucks. But it’s all about our perception of life. How we look at things that happening in our life? I used to do the same mistake that most of us doing. Every single day doing the same things. Same restaurant, same hobby, same group of friends, taking the same road every time and so on. But then, one day I realized I’m limiting my opportunity if I stick with the same things. When I started to take different alternative and try something new, thing getting better and better. Life becomes interesting. I think it’s worth it to take a risk to try new things in life. I’m sure you guys won’t be disappointed.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Few Things About Men's That Women's Should Know

Men are from mars,Women are from venus.Its true that men and women are two different species.Lets say we give a man and women one same problem,the way both the man and women look at the problem and the kind of solution they find for the problem will be totally diffrent most of the times.Men are normaly very straight with everything.So its not really hard for womens out there to understand their man's.Relationship between a man and women normally hit rock bottom when both fail to understand they partners.There are few thing about guys that women should know;to understand them better.



Here are few way to understand a man:



1.Approach him,ask him question & get the answer


A man prefer staright approach.If you want to know something,just ask him and get the answer.Isn't it very simple?If you keep thing in your mind and aspect him to understand what in your mind--->isn't it a bit wiered?so always confront him.talk to him;he will understand.


2.Let him be alone when he need to be alone


To make a relationship sucessfull both the partners should be spending some quality time together and have their own space to maintain their individuality.Sometime men need time to be alone to have a quiet moments for himself.A reltionship which maintain without loosing both person individualty will be more stronger.


3.Accept his family & friends


If you want to maintain your realtionship with him,then women should learn to accept her man's family and friends.Man need time to be with his friends.There are so many 'guys talk'...that man prefer to have with his friends.


4.Dont compare him with others


Man hate when his loved one comparing him with others,especially with his own friends.So dont compare your man with others.Accept him as who he is.He will aprreciate you more when he know you accept him as who he are.

5.Dont always give comments


Sometime man just need a listener.He dont need someone judge him.Sometime he just need to clear everything in his mind.So learn to be a good listener.Just listen quietlly.You will understand him more.


6.Mens are sensitive too


Man are sensitive too.Beleive me.It's true.So think before speak.Respect him.Dont ever envoke his man's pride and ego.It's very dangerous for a relationship.


7.Pass the remote control to HIM


Man & remote control are best friends.Let him be with his BF & he will love you more.