Motivation Quotes

"One who smiles rather than angers is always stronger"

-Chinese wisdom-

MyThingking :

I completely agree with this quotes.Smile is the best weapon that anyone can use to touch people’s heart.We can accomplish more things by smiling than being anger.Smile is the greatest asset that GOD gifted human being.A smile gives signal to other about who we are and how we wish to be.A smile show someone that we are approachable and friendly.It’s attract people toward you as a magnet.

When you smile,you feel lighter and more relaxed.This will definitely help you when you dealing with stressful moments like nearing due date for your projects or preparing for some important moments.When you stressed you will feel tight.A smile can make you body feel relaxed and focus more.

A smile can open a heart faster than a key can open a door.Smile are free.Don't save them.Brighten the world with your smile today and everyday.

Cheers!

Happy Deepavali

Today hindu people celebrating Deepavali.Deepavali is major hindu festival.It is ‘Festival of Lights’.

I wish all hindu people a very Happy Deepavali.May the festival of light bring joy and prosperity to all of you.

Cheers!

Disappointment

Everyone in the world is hoping for the best.We want to get all that we desire.Everyone is chasing something and want to hold it in their hand.We want….

our love to be replied…..

to get promotion…..

to score good grade in exam…..

to have a wonderful family…..

to win the game…..

to be rich…..

to be appreciated……

If we ask the people around us to list down what they want in life;I'm very sure there will be no full stop for the list.Sometime we tend to set high expectation from the people we love or our own self.It’s just not possible every single things in the world work in our favor.So when thing doesn't work in our favor,we tend to get disappointed.

What is disappointment?

Disappointment is a feeling of dissatisfaction that follow after we fail to meet our own expectation.You will be disappointed if you can’t get the expected result or things doesn’t work as your way.

How disappointment affecting your life and others?

Disappointment often lead to stress and anxiety.When you disappointed,you feel hurt.When your expectation failed to manifest,you will be disappointed.This disappointment tend to destroy your belief and self confidence.This is because,you will immediately start to think you are not that good and starting find you weakness.You will blame yourself for not meeting your expectation or goals.Some even hurt them self if they disappointed.

Disappointment in relationship will affect your trust and integrity.Most of the marriage failed because he/she not able to fulfill their spouse expectation.We enter the marriage world with full of expectation,looking for Mr or Miss Perfect.When our spouse failed to fulfill our expectation,we tend to get hurt and disappointed.This lead to stress in a relationship and eventually ended in breakup.

Normally people tend to do something stupid when disappointed.Mostly people tend to engage in activities to divert their mind from disappointment.But some people tend to go for extreme level to cure their disappointment.This often happened in love.This group of people can become extreme if there don't get the person they love.They willing to kidnap or physically abusing people to show their disappointment.Sometime things can get worst than this.

How to overcome disappointment?

The ‘law of life’ is,things won’t always work in our favor.Sometime we will be disappointed.But we should learn from the disappointment and move forward.We should find a way to cure the disappointment and pursue happiness.

Robert Kiyosaki once said “The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way”.

Here are some ideas I have that might help you to walk through the time of disappointment.I hope you find them useful.

1.Calm down.Stop and calm down.Give yourself some time.Shift your attention from the thing that disappoint you.Things might not seem nearly to bad tomorrow.

2.Talk to your friends or family.If you are unhappy with your friends or family members,talk with them about it.Confront the problem.Use the proper word to explain your disappointment.Sometime it’s just a misunderstanding or misinterpretation.Maybe they won’t aware they has been hurt you or they did it unintentionally.By having a talk with your dearest people you can avoid your disappointment.Definitely they will seek for your forgiveness if they hurt you.What can be a better cure for a disappointed heart than a sincere apology from the one who disappointed us?

3.Expect less & give more.Don’t expect too much from the people you love.We all human and nobody is perfect.So accept people as who there are and give your best to them.The law is “what you give is what you get back”.Once you stop expecting too much from people,there will be no room for disappointment.BUT…BUT…..there is no life without expectation.So we have to learn to set right kind of expectation for our self and others.By setting the right kind of expectation you will find happiness and satisfaction.The real joy of life is giving and not receiving.Give your best to yourself and to others without expecting anything in return.That's the path of eternal happiness.

4.Surrender to god.In life,we may not always get what we want,we may not always get what we need but we get what we deserved because god always give us what is best for us.Learn to give your best in everything you do including your relationship.Leave the result to the god.

5.Learn from the experience.Think what you can learn from the experience.Find a way to do it better next time.Take disappointment as an opportunity to improve yourself.Believe that you can learn something from the disappointment and use it to create a new future.

5.Meditation.Do meditation every day.Meditation will help you to be more calm and focus.Meditation definitely a good medicine during the time of disappointment.It will help you to clear the anxiety and make you feel more relaxed.

6.Move on.You was disappointed.True.But what is the point to keep thinking the same thing over and over again.It’s not going to change anything.Your life is not going to end at the point where you disappointed.Accepting the disappointment with an open heart and moving forward in the life is the best thing you can do to cure your disappointed heart.Life is full of opportunity and happiness.It’s in your hand to grab it or not.

Hope this article can help the reader to handle disappointment in an effective way and help them find happiness in their life.

Cheers !

Motivation Quotes

Today's Quotes:

"Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only for wallowing in"  -Katherine Mansfield-

MyThingking :

Every single day,million of us including you and me regretting something in life.Rather than focusing in present,we always think about what has been happened.Some regret thinking….

How if I took job A instead of job B?

How if I met him/her earlier in my life?

How if I realized earlier the love I feel now?

How if I appreciate him/her earlier?

How if I tell earlier how exactly I am feeling?

How if I followed my dreams?

There will be endless ‘how if’ in our life.But we are tend to forget that there is no rewind button in life.We can’t go back to past and change what has happened.Sometime I do wonder,how if there is a time machine where I can go back to past and make a brand new decision?It will be really amazing.But there is a huge difference between real life and fantasy.Accepting the fact that there is no such machine in the world where we can go back to the past is the smartest decision that all of us can do.So why we are wasting our precious moments in the present by regretting what has been already happened?Why we should waste our energy,time,and focus by thinking the past?

I always believed we can’t go back and start a brand new beginning.But we can always start now and make a brand new ending.A ending which you will never regret in the future.A ending which make you happy and satisfied.So let us stop regretting what has been happened and live right in the moments.Let’s create magnificent painting of our life without any regret.

Cheers!

Maintaining Individuality in Love

Love often start with a beautiful node.Two people with a different style,attitude,and nature get attracted with each other and eventually fell for each other.But what make us to attracted to someone?To fell in love with someone?I’m sure there is plenty of reason.Maybe we like their sense of humor,their self-believe,confidence,calmness and the list goes on.We get attracted to someone and eventually fell in love with them because we find them unique.We find them different then all other people we met before.We started to like their uniqueness and individual characteristic.

But in the middle of the journey,we realized, “he is not the same person I used to love” or “She change ready.She is a different person now.I can’t relate myself with her”.

Why this is happening?

People often compromise or lose their sense of self in a relationship.In a relationship,one partner compromise everything and gives up a significant part of himself or herself to maintain the relationship.Some losing their individuality without realizing it.Why they letting them self to be sabotaged in a relationship? Fear of being alone is the main reason why some individual sacrifice part of their identity to keep the relationship alive.Fear of losing the person they love lead them to loose their own individuality.They have a misconception about love.They tend to believe compromising everything including our own identity is a key to everlasting happiness.

But the truth is,compromising and giving up yourself in a relationship will only be the temporary solution to maintain the relationship.In the long run,though,there is a price to be paid:unhappiness,dissatisfaction,and losing of individuality.How you can be happy if you compromise your own believe and dreams?

Entering a relationship is not only about the attraction and love,but more importantly about your believe,preference,boundaries,and dreams.When you enter into a relationship,it does not mean your life ‘before relationship’ stopped.You need to maintain your friendship,hobby,and interest that you had before you get into the relationship.All this things is your identity.This is who you are.Your unique characteristic and individuality is what attracted your partner.Losing your individuality means,you are going to lose your partner in nearby future. Losing individuality mean you are losing you self respect and dignity.

Reason for people sacrifice their individuality

Fear of being alone

Fear of being dumped or being alone lead people to compromise their value and individuality in a relationship.Sometime we tend to think,

“what if he/she didn’t agree with me?”

“will he/she will be upset if I disagree with them?”

“how if he/she dumped me?”

All this fear lead them to a stage where they compromise their identity and individuality.They prefer to losing their individuality than being alone.But the point is,they failed to realized losing your own individuality will eventually lead the relationship to a breakup stage.

Obsession

Some people tend to be too obsess with their partner.This also lead to self-compromising stage where you will not able to realized you are losing your identity to make the other person happier.You are sacrificing your dreams and expectation to make the other person happy.But the real happiness in a relationship is in where both the partners equally feel important and maintaining their own individuality.

The subtle surrender of self

This is the most common factor why people losing their individuality in a relationship.It is not as if people consciously decide to sacrifice themselves for the relationship. Over time, the integration of two lives take its toll and certain compromise are bound to happen.Example,maybe the husband/wife have to resign their job to take care of their new born baby.One need to give up their career goal while the other one pursuing their goals.This will eventually lead to bitterness at heart.

How to be in love and be happy without losing our own individuality?

The first step toward happiness in a relationship is to be honest with your feeling.Compromising your feeling lead to unhappiness.Be truthful with your feeling.We cant deny the fact that compromise is always necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship.But once you are truthful to your feeling,you will able to know when you can compromise and when you should stand for your believe.

You should learn to communicate rather than compromise.Rather than compromising and being unhappy,you should learn how to confront the issue with your partner to find a solution which can make both party happy.Explain you view and thoughts to your partner and always go for win-win situation.

There is some situation where you can compromise with you partner and make him/her happy without losing your own individuality and vice-versa.

Key for everlasting happiness

We all deserved to be loved and be happy in a relationship.It’s take effort from two people to make a relationship successful.Both should learn to compromise and respect your spouse/partner individuality.Finding the right balance in a relationship is the key for everlasting happiness.

Cheers!

Motivation Quotes

Today's Quotes:

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." -Mahatma Gandhi-

MyThingking :

Strength is an ability to overcome obstacle and challenges.An ability to hold on when thing get tough.The world does not measure the strength of a man by his physical capacity.A true strength of a man come from an indomitable will.A powerful mind and unshakeable self-believe is a real strength of a man.

Cheers!

Motivational Quotes

Today's Quotes:

"We will either find a way or make one." –Hannibal-

MyThingking :

This is one of my all time favorite quote.I came across this quotes when I was 18 years old.Its change my perspective of challenges.What I learned from this quote is,if we had a goal means we should find the way to achieve the goals.It’s not only apply to goals.Its do apply for problems.We have to try our best to find the right solution or way to solve it.If we are not able to find the right solution or there is no existing solution,then we have to create our own solution to that problem.I applied this concept whenever I want to achieve something or solve any problem.The result will be in our favors.Hope this wonderful quote can change someone’s life.

Cheers!

How To Be Happy: Gratitude

 

I’m not happy with my career.

I’m not happy with my financial status.

I’m not happy with my look.

I’m not happy with this situation.

Look familiar?Yes.Most of us will say that.Sometime we  heard our family members or friends complaining that life is not that great,no money,no one is there for them,life getting difficult,and so on.But most of us tend to forget we are in a better position compare to million people out there.There is an Indian proverbs saying, “we will not able to appreciate the importance of something until we lost it”.Be it love or things.Isn’t it so true?

Sometime god give us so many things.But we will still complaining it’s not enough or blaming god.Those who have so little live happily.But those who have everything still struggling to be happy.They still searching for happiness. Will they find it?I’m afraid no.The answer is very simple.Until they learn to be gratitude,they wont be happy with what they have.

What is Gratitude?

Gratitude is a form of acceptance and being thankful with what we have.A key component for happiness is by being grateful.We have to be grateful for everything we have in life.Usually we tend to get hurt when we compare our self with others and feeling jealous.We have to realize something important here.Nobody is better than you and neither you are better than anyone.Everyone is unique.Everyone has their unique talent.When we accept this fact and be grateful for what we have,then happiness will follow us.

A true story:

I like to share a true experience that I came across.Five months ago I was watching evening news at my house.At that point I was emotionally down and not happy with the way my life is shaping up.I feel like nothing is good about my life.The I saw a news about Myanmar attacked by Cyclone Nargis.There was a video playing,hundred of children’s running behind the track which bring food.This children chasing the track from behind and food is thrown from the track.3-4 years children chasing the track and collecting the food thrown to them.Looking at this video itself make me shocked.I never came across such situation.Without my realization I was thanking god for give such a good life.I was thanking god for everything HE gave me.At that point i realized happiness is not in what you don't have.happiness is with always with you.Once your realize to be gratitude,you will find the happiness.

How to be grateful?

1.Keep a gratitude journal.List everything you gratitude for and update your gratitude journal everyday.

2.Begin your day by thanking God for giving a new day.Start your day by thinking of things that you are grateful for.

3.Say thank you to everyone.Practice saying thank you to everyone who help you or doing you a favor.You can say thank you to the waiter at the restaurant where your normally have your lunch or to your office boy.Start with someone and keep the thank you list grow the all day.

4.Keep smile and be thankful when thing goes your way.It’s not only make you feel lighter,it also give significant positive impact to the people around you.

5.Express your gratefulness in word.When someone do you a favor,tell them you are grateful and appreciate what they doing to you.Nothing is more powerful than a word from a genuine heart.

In conclusion

Be grateful for everything that you have.Be grateful for everything that happen in your life.By being grateful you are giving yourself a chance to be happier.

Cheers!

Motivation Quotes

Today's Quotes:

"If you want your life to be a magnificent story, then begin by realizing that you are the author and everyday you have the opportunity to write a new page" -Mark Houlahan-

MyThingking :

I believe everybody in this earth is responsible for their destiny.They are the person who control their life.We will decide how our future will look like,what car we will be driving in 5 years time,what kind of house we will have and so on.We are the creator of our life.I believe every single day is an opportunity for us to getting close to our dreams.But we have to make sure we give what it take to achieve all those dreams.Planning a day ahead and executing those plans everyday will eventually lead you to your dreams.

Cheers!

Motivation Quotes

Today's Quotes:

"Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare" -Japanese Proverb-

MyThingking :

I believe only execution of a vision can make a person successful.If we had a vision and we not doing anything to make the vision come true,then there is no point for us to have the vision.A vision should be followed by an action.But doing something without having a vision also pointless.We can’t start a journey without knowing the destination.The same rules apply when it’s come to vision.Always have a clear vision when you are doing something.It will make the journey more easier and inspiring.You will reach your destination much more faster if you have a clear vision.

Cheers!

Motivation Quotes

Since motivation quotes act like a fuel in a fire called “motivation”,I decided to discuss one motivation quotes everyday now onwards.I will discuss about one motivation quote a day.I will give my own point of view about the quote.Hope you all can share your point of you about the same quotes.By doing this we can share our view about the quotes.Lets see what is the value of a quotes on different people.

Today's Quotes:

“Arise, awake and stop not till you reach the goal."
-Swami Vivekananda-

MyThingking :

Keep awake on your dreams.Never close your eyes when you dream about your future.Never quit until you reach your goals.

Cheers!

Inspirational People –Project

The world full with inspirational people.There are people who inspire us to happily,some inspire us to give our best to the world,some inspire us to pursuits our passion,some inspire us to love and some inspire us to chase our dreams.

People who inspire others are the heroes of mankind.So I created “Inspirational People” project to keep myself stay motivated and help all my brother & sister out there.In this project I will name all those people who inspire me and million of people out there.I just started this project,and it will grow together with this blog.I will keep updating the ‘Heroes’ in this project.Hope this people who inspire million of people will inspire you also.I will consider this project is successful if it will able to change someone’s life.If someone get inspired by this list and decided to change their life,then it will the real success of this ‘Inspirational People’ project.

This list will only contain the name of our heroes.I will talk about each of them individually on my forthcoming post.So let start our journey to ‘Inspirational People’.

1.Oprah Winfrey – American television host and media mogul

2.Abraham Lincoln – Sixteenth president of United States

3.Martin Luther King – American activist

4.Swami Vivekananda – Hindu sage & social reformer

5.Mahatma Gandhi – Political and spiritual leader of India

6.Nelson Mandela – Former president of South Africa

7.Mother Theresa - Humanitarian

8.Roger Federer - Professional tennis player

9.Serena Williams – Professional tennis player

10.Donald Trump – Businessman,Socialite,Television personality

11.Warren Buffet – Investor & Businessman

12.Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam – Eleventh president of India

13.Mark Zuckerberg – Facebook founder

14.Larry Page & Sergey Brin –Google founder

15.Bill Gates – Microsoft founder

16.Tiger Woods – American professional golfer

17.Michael Jordan – American professional basketball player

(Wait for next update…….!)

Cheers!

How To Stay Focused & Increase Working Efficiency

Most of us will be facing problem to stay focused at work.Sometime we get irritated with our self when we failed to complete our work or project.I still remember those days where I failed to complete my project and had a tough time to give explanation to my boss.By applying some ‘Magic Formula’ now I'm able to stay focused on my work and complete my projects before the due date.

Normally we tend to get distracted by various reason.Like emails,social media,online games and so on.We tend to spend 2-3 hours on social media’s and email.I called them ‘time stealer’.I used to spend my time on this ‘time stealer’ where I supposed to focus on completing my projects.The result?I not able to complete my task according to the due date and end up getting anxiety,pressure and the list goes on.

The thing about our brain is,it only can focus on a particular period of time our mind is tend to divert if we sit long hours in front of our pc’s.So we have to make sure we use the time we have in a proper way.Here are the few way for us to stay focused and increase workplace efficiency:

1.Set you goals-To stay focused on work we should have clear goals.Once we plan our goals is will be very easy for us to stay focused.We can use goal planning tools life GoalEnforcer to plan our goal,to track our goal and to accomplish the goals.

2.Allocate time to check mails-we can reach our workplace 30 minutes earlier to check our personal mails and promise to our self that we will stay away from personal emails during working period.

3.Stay away from personal calls-Usually I make sure I put my phone in silent mode when I was working.I will not entertain any personal call when I working.I tried this method.Its really working.It help me too stay focused on my work.

4.Allocate time period to people to disturb you-Set a timeframe for yourself to complete like 50% of your work.After you complete this goal,maybe you can spend 5-10 min to catch up with people or other latest updates around you.

5.Listen to some light music-This will keep you relax and stay focused.

6.Use right chair -Use the right chair which suit your body posture.This is to avoid back pains and keep you focus on your work.

7.Listen to right kind of music-Listen to the right music which suite your workplace,keep you motivated,and keep you focus.

8.Breakdown your work and set time frame-Break down your work into smaller category and set dateline to complete it.

9.Create ‘To Do' list and track it.

10.Do meditation-Practice doing meditation to increase your focusing level.

“Winner Focus;Looser Spray”

Hope this info will be helpful to all of you.

Cheers!

Persistence

I came across this quote by The Great Napolean Hill:

"Effort only fully release its rewards after a person refuse to quit"

What a powerful message for all of us who is trying to be successful in life. Sometime success is so close to us when we decided to quit. There is only one different between the successful people and those are not so successful. The successful one never quit. Those who are successful are very persistence.

What is persistence?

Persistence is the ability to keep trying until successful. If we see most of the successful people like Oprah Winfrey, Donald Trump, and Serena Williams; they are very persistence in pursuing their goals. These are the people who realized when the going get tough, the tough get going. Most of us set our goals every New Year. Some of us pursue the goals. But sometime when it’s getting tough to achieve the goal, we will easily give up or just replace the goal with new one. Those who are persistent will keep working on their goals until they reach their destination. I used to think, “I’m very motivated. I will achieve all my goals”. But at the end, most of my goals are still not attainable. Then I realized something. Motivation doest make you rich. Motivation doest complete your goals. But execution does. Keep working on the goals with a motivated mind will help you to achieve your goals. Once I realized this, I started to achieve my goals on by one.

How to be persistence?

Being persistence and achieving goals can be very easy means, most of us will be millionaire by now. The world will be filled by only successful people. It’s take a lot of effort. Here are few things I will normally do to be persistence in achieving my goals:
1. I will write down all my goals in a piece of paper.
2. After wrote down all the goals, I will set dateline to achieve my goals.
3. Then I will use ‘Divide & Conquer’ technique. I will breakdown my goal into small category and start working on it.
4. I will make sure I work on my goals everyday.
5. If there is a point where I’m hitting low point in term of motivation, I will take a short break. I will do something else that can recharge me back to execute my goals. Then I will come back again to execute my goals. Being persistence doest mean you should work without having break or ignoring all your other interest.
6. I make sure I reward my self with something that can excite me after I complete my goals.

Should we always be persist and never quit? Of course not. Sometime giving up will be good option. So before we set our goals, we should analyze properly everything. If our plan is not working, we have to figure it out what is wrong with the plan and rectify it. Then we should continue working on it. Let say your goal is to climb Everest. The height of Everest is 8840m.You at 4400m.Sudenlly you got virus infection. So the best option here is to stop climbing and save yourself. If you keep climbing, eventually you will end up in killing yourself. I know it is tough to balance when to be persistent and when to give up. But when you set your goal and pursuing it, you will know at some point whether the goal is still relevant to you or not. When you very clear with your goals, then don’t give up. Keep pursuing you goals. Be persistent. I’m sure at the end you will be very happy with the result.

Cheers!

Forgiveness

Sometime the people we love or care can hurt us unintentionally. It will be very hurtful. As an immediate reaction we tend to get very angry with the person who hurt us. Without our knowledge we will try to recall back all their past mistakes. These will multiply our anger towards that person. We will keep replaying their past mistake over and over until to a point where we will conclude they don’t deserves forgiveness. We won’t give them a chance to explain themselves and correct their mistakes. These wound can leave you with the feeling of anger and even vengeance.
It is really hurtful when you realized you have been betrayed. But keeping this anger deep inside will make things more difficult in our life. Sometime it’s better to forgive. What is forgiveness? In general forgiveness is a decision to let go the anger and the taught of revenge. By giving forgiveness we are letting go our burdens. Whenever we are in state of mind where we can’t forgive the person who hurt us, it’s recommended we take 1 or 2 day off from the current situation. Take a break from the problem. Give yourself a time to heal. During this break, try to view the problem from the other person point of view. Find out why they behave in such way. Maybe this will make the forgiving process easier.
By forgiving someone we are not doing them a favor. But we are helping our self to move on and stay healthy. Research shows by forgiving we are reducing our stress, lower the blood pressure, and reduce chronic pain. The truth is, by not forgiving somebody we are still stick at the same moment we are get hurt. We will keep replaying the incident until we genuinely forgive them. By not forgiving someone who is very close to us, we are loosing somebody who is very important in our life. Maybe the person who hurt you can be your husband, wife, close friends or family members. By not forgiving them, you are indirectly throwing them from your life. Its take years to build a relationship. Sometime it’s just not fair to let it go just because of one incident. By forgiving someone we give a second chance to the relationship. Some tend to think by forgiving we are forgetting what has happened and excusing it. Absolutely not! We can genuinely forgiving someone without excusing their act. At the same time, we can make sure the same kind of problem is not occurring in future. By doing so, we are not only saving a relationship, we also giving a chance for our self to love and to be loved. So let’s forget the past bitterness and genuinely forgive all those who hurts us. Let’s give them a chance to correct their mistake. Let give our self a chance to be happy.

Cheers!

How To Avoid Being Lonely & Stressful

Do you ever been lonely? Or been stress because of loneliness? Feeling lonely mean reaching a state of mind where we feel our life is empty and meaningless. When we are lonely, we tend to feel that we are not loved by people or there is no one there for us. But the truth is feeling lonely is purely based on our perspective of life.

Feeling lonely for a long period of time can cause some serious damages for our self. Some tend to kill their self because of loneliness. Most of us tend to go for anxiety pills or anti-depression pills as a solution for loneliness. But we all tend to forget none of this pill can be permanent solution for loneliness.

Feeling lonely is a state of mind and its doest have to be in this way. Here are few ways to overcome loneliness:

1.Get a pet-Get a dog/cat to occupy us will help us from being alone. Playing with our pet also will reduce our stress.
2.Take up a new hobby-Take up a new hobby. Do something that you enjoy doing like painting, reading, and playing snooker. Maybe you can try some adventures sport like mountain climbing, jungle tracking, hunting and so on.
3.Keep your mind occupied-By visualizing positive affirmation we can overcome loneliness. Find a activity which can excite you whenever you lonely.
4.Experiment with new things in life-Approaching a daily life in different perspective and doing the daily routine in different way is a good way to overcome loneliness.
5.Listen to music-Listen to your favorite music and recalling your sweet old memories also is a good way to overcome loneliness.
6.Meditation-Meditation keeps us focus and enjoys the nature and freedom of inner soul.
7.Join online community-Join online community like faceebook, friendster, and myspace. Getting introduced with different kind of people from all over the world and sharing your life with this new people will give a new meaning to your lonely life.
8.Call your friends-Call your friends and go out with your friends. Get involved in the activity that you enjoy doing with you friends.
9.Go out for a walk-Always remember. Feeling lonely is a state of mind. You can change it by just getting out of the situation. A simple walk can make you rejuvenated again.

Life is short. So we have to make sure we enjoyed every bit of it. There is no time for loneliness. Let’s make our life more interesting one.

Cheer!

Appreciation

“There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread” - Mother Teresa-

Everybody in this world hunger for appreciation. We all want to be appreciated by our family members, friends, loved ones, boss, and etc.It’s a wonderful motivation when our effort is being appreciated by people. When we give a genuine appreciation to someone we will not only make his/her day but we will help them to bring out the best out of them. A positive energy is created there when someone is being appreciated. So by appreciating someone we are not only helping them to be at their best, we also indirectly helping our self to give our best in everything we do. Learning how to appreciate every single thing that god has offered us is a key to increase fulfillment. Below is the few way of us showing our appreciation:

1. A simple ‘Thank You’ will do wonders in our relationship, career, and life .By saying ‘thank you’ we are telling people their effort is being appreciated. A simple ‘thank you’ from a boss will motivate the employee to give his best in his/her next assignment.
2. Call people using their real name-For everyone their name is the sweetest thing they can hear from someone mouth. By calling someone with their name (with proper pronunciation) you are showing them there are being appreciated and remembered. You are telling them there are VVIP.There are remembered.
2.’I Love You’ notes-Nothing can make our partners or beloved one happier than letting them know how much we appreciate them. Simple ‘I love you’ notes can add ‘extra sugar’ in a relationship.
3. The most IMPORTANT DAY in someone life is their birthday. A simple SMS on their birthday will let them know how much there are being appreciated.
4. Enjoy little things in life-Appreciation not only meaning appreciate people around us. We also can appreciate every little thing around us and came across our life. A little thing today can be a big thing tomorrow.

So, let’s start to appreciate everyone and everything in life and fill this world with love.

Cheers!

How To Stay Focused

I often heard my friends complaining there is no enough time to complete their office task with the increasing ‘MUST FINISH’ list. Some complaining there is so many distractions in office and they are not able to finish the task in times. But by stay focus on our mission we can be more productive. Here are few things that I usually do to stay focus:

1. Plan and visualize your day ahead. Plan your day ahead before you go to bed. Visualize that you are doing the entire task that you supposed to do the next day.

2. Write down your entire task.Start your day by writing down the entire task that you supposed to do in that particular day. Prioritize the task according to the importance.

3. Allocate ‘Relaxing’ time.Allocate in advance a short time period for you to check your email, new, facebook, friendster and etc.Do everything you want in this time. So when you start back your task, you won’t be distracted by this ‘time killers’.

4. Reschedule your tasks when you are really bored.Let say, you are feeling bored when doing task A, you can reschedule the task according to its priority and do some other task in your list which is less boring. By doing this, we will eliminate boredom and stay focuses in accomplishing our tasks.

5. List down all the distraction & eliminate it.Take a white paper and list down the entire thing that distracting you from accomplishing your task. List down everything and eliminate them one by one. I’m sure you will see the increasing productivity.

6. Divide & Conquer-Rome is not built in one day. Divide all you task into small part and take on at a time. After you finish your first task, move to the next one.

7. Maintain a support group.Mingle with the right kind of people who can motivate you and guide you to achieve your goals. Track your goals with them.

8. Task = Goal.Visualize all you task will lead to your goals. Keep inspiring yourself to complete all your task to achieve your goals.

9. Reward yourself.Reward yourself every time you accomplish a bigger task. A small reward can motivate you to stay focus in your goal and make you more determine in accomplishing your task.

Winner Focus; Loser Spray. Hope this article will be helpful to all the readers to stay focused.

Your Life Is Your Work of art

While I was reading a book, I came across this wonderful thought by one of my favorite writers, Shakti Gawain which is very inspiring. Such a powerful thoughts. I believe it can bring a lot of positive changes in people life. Here is the passage:

“Your Life is Your Work of Art”

“I like to think myself as an artist, and my life is my greatest work of art. Every moment is a moment of creation, and each moments of creation contain infinite possibilities. I can do things the way I have always done them, or I can look at all the different alternatives, and try something new and different and potentially more rewarding. Every moment presents a new opportunity and a new decision. What a wonderful game we are playing, and what a magnificent art form”

We can apply this concept in every part of our life. Be it business, relationship, career and every single thing. We are the architect of our life. Most of the time we heard people complaining that life is sucks. But it’s all about our perception of life. How we look at things that happening in our life? I used to do the same mistake that most of us doing. Every single day doing the same things. Same restaurant, same hobby, same group of friends, taking the same road every time and so on. But then, one day I realized I’m limiting my opportunity if I stick with the same things. When I started to take different alternative and try something new, thing getting better and better. Life becomes interesting. I think it’s worth it to take a risk to try new things in life. I’m sure you guys won’t be disappointed.

Few Things About Men's That Women's Should Know

Men are from mars,Women are from venus.Its true that men and women are two different species.Lets say we give a man and women one same problem,the way both the man and women look at the problem and the kind of solution they find for the problem will be totally diffrent most of the times.Men are normaly very straight with everything.So its not really hard for womens out there to understand their man's.Relationship between a man and women normally hit rock bottom when both fail to understand they partners.There are few thing about guys that women should know;to understand them better.



Here are few way to understand a man:



1.Approach him,ask him question & get the answer


A man prefer staright approach.If you want to know something,just ask him and get the answer.Isn't it very simple?If you keep thing in your mind and aspect him to understand what in your mind--->isn't it a bit wiered?so always confront him.talk to him;he will understand.


2.Let him be alone when he need to be alone


To make a relationship sucessfull both the partners should be spending some quality time together and have their own space to maintain their individuality.Sometime men need time to be alone to have a quiet moments for himself.A reltionship which maintain without loosing both person individualty will be more stronger.


3.Accept his family & friends


If you want to maintain your realtionship with him,then women should learn to accept her man's family and friends.Man need time to be with his friends.There are so many 'guys talk'...that man prefer to have with his friends.


4.Dont compare him with others


Man hate when his loved one comparing him with others,especially with his own friends.So dont compare your man with others.Accept him as who he is.He will aprreciate you more when he know you accept him as who he are.

5.Dont always give comments


Sometime man just need a listener.He dont need someone judge him.Sometime he just need to clear everything in his mind.So learn to be a good listener.Just listen quietlly.You will understand him more.


6.Mens are sensitive too


Man are sensitive too.Beleive me.It's true.So think before speak.Respect him.Dont ever envoke his man's pride and ego.It's very dangerous for a relationship.


7.Pass the remote control to HIM


Man & remote control are best friends.Let him be with his BF & he will love you more.

Online video sharing websites.

Since YouTube,the number of online video sharing websites rapidly increasing .Now there are so many video sharing websites offering more services other than uploading videos and viewing videos.There a million of people accessing all this site's everyday because this site's not only becoming a place to viewing videos.This video sharing sites become a platform for young talents to get exposure;to get the attention they need.Here are the some video sharing websites that i came across and it's quite interesting:

1)YouTube ( www.youtube.com)
*I'm prety sure everyone who know how to use internet,also know about YouTube.So let go to the next one.

2)jumpcut ( http://jumpcut.com/ )
*This site is very interesting.Unlike YouTube this video sharing site enable us to upload,edit and share videos and photos.

3)eyespot ( http://eyespot.com/ )
*Very nicely designed site.Very appealing.Enable user to upload and remix the video's)

4)GoogleVideo ( http://video.google.com/ )

5)revver (http://video.google.com/)
*This is very cool site.We can upload video and share the videos with our friends.The interesting part is we are getting paid for creating and sharing the videos.Our videos can be shared via emails,embeded(blog,websites,networking profiles),RSS feeds,and podcast.

6)Dailymotion ( http://www.dailymotion.com)
*This site is not bad but it's taking long time to load the videos)

7)blip ( http://www.blip.tv/ )

8)ClipShack (http://www.clipshack.com/ )

And the list go on......But as for now enjoy this video sharing sites and 'market' your talents(singing ,acting) via this video sharing sites!

Wanna be entrepreneur?

I'm sure 90% ppl out there aspiring to be an entrepreneur.But most of them dont know whats the first step or confuse to take daring decision.Some ppl will make a choice to be 'own boss' but will giveup in the first 4-5 months when they started to face defficulties.But they forgot 1 thing.If doing bussiness is that easy,than everybody will be doing bussiness.So to all the aspiring entrepreneur out there,to keep your burning alive you should feed yourself with new bussiness and marketing ideas.I came across this site ( http://www.entrepreneur.com/ ).
This site is quite amazing.There are a lot of stuff about bussiness including marketting,advertising,Home based biz,management,human resource,and technology.There are a lot of bussiness ideas also in this site.Hope you guys can enjoy this site!

Happy New Year!

Wish all of you a happy new year.Hope this 2008 bring more happiness and prosperity in everybody's life!